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Are you your Biggest Critic or Biggest Fan?

June 21, 2022

Mia The Diva

Hey Divas,

Sometimes we are our own Biggest Critic;

If anyone ever talked to us the way that we talk to ourselves we would not be friends with them.

So why do we hold such value on the opinions of people who do little to nothing for us, even people we don’t even know?

Like the saying goes everyone has an opinion like everyone has a ________ fill in the blank.

It’s just an opinion and it can change like the weather.

Take heart dear diva and be kind to yourself, the world is hard enough on us. 

We do not have to carry the weight of the world on our shoulders. 

However many of us, WE are carrying the weight of our lives.

  • The weight of all the pain.
  • The weight of all the hurt.
  • The weight of the forgotten dream.
  • The weight of the heart-break.
  • The weight of missed opportunity.
  • The weight of grief.
  • The weight of self hate.
  • The weight of being late because it takes everything in you to get out of the bed.
  • The weight of the diet that never actually starts on Monday.
  • The weight of giving up before even getting started.
  • The weight of never going swimming because your thighs jiggle and don’t like how you look in a bathing suit.
  • The weight of laughing and pointing jokes at yourself to take the focus off you.
  • The weight of saying that you are “ Good “ but feel like you’re dying from the inside out so you don’t have to do anything about it.
  • The weight of making ourselves a joke of every conversation to ease our anxiety.
  • The weight of success.
  • The weight of failure.
  • The weight of never enjoying the beach because of the stretch marks on your stomach and hips.
  • The weight of never being yourself.
  • The weight of trying to be the perfect daughter, sister, wife, partner, mother.
  • The weight of not letting go.
  • The weight of the pressure to look “ perfect “
  • The weight of hiding yourself from the fear of being real.
  • The weight of years of hating yourself through self-sabotage.
  • The weight of knowing in your heart of hearts that you are imperfect but perfectly you.
  • The weight of knowing you deserve better.
  • The weight of knowing your are enough and always have been.
  • The weight of surrounding yourself with people who have limited beliefs.
  • The weight of not being free.
  • The weight of not holding ourselves accountable.

The good news is we can turn this around; it’s never too late to become your very own Biggest Fan!

It’s never too late to be what you might have been. – George Elliot

Get quiet with yourself, by visualizing your best future self try a daily check in with that Diva and ask her what you can do today to get an inch closer to whom you want to become.

Be Healthy Be Fabulous Be You! 

Mia The Diva 

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